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Don't Always be Short, Barrel into Discipleship to Double that Oak

Whiskey Review:  Short barrel Double Oaked Series
Topic of Discussion: Growing in Christ: How Does a Disciple Grow
 
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Show Notes:
Growth is God’s Design for Every Believer:
Ephesians 4:13–15 - “until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.”
Spiritual infancy is not the goal. Christ intends for his people to grow into maturity.
Growth means:
Stability in truth
Discernment against error
Increasing Christlikeness
Maturity is not measured by knowledge accumulation, but by resemblance to Christ.
Conversion does not equal completion. 
Conversion is the beginning, not arrival. 
Not “Am I saved”?
Am I growing?
Growth Requires Nourishment from God’s Word:
1 Peter 2:2 - “Like newborn infants, long for the pure spiritual milk, that by it you may grow up into salvation—”
Just as infants require milk, believers require spiritual nourishment
The word of God:
Feeds faith
Shapes thinking
Renews desire
Strengthens obedience
Growth does not occur through inspiration alone
It requires intake
Casual exposure to Scripture cannot produce deep maturity. 
If spiritual growth feels stalled, examine your spiritual diet
What feeds my mind and heart?
Growth Happens Through Obedient Response:
James 1:22–25 - “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do.”
Hearing without doing produces self-deception
Spiritual maturity requires:
Application
Submission
Action
Truth only transformed when obeyed
It is possible to study Scripture extensively and remain unchanged
Discipleship is measured by obedience, not familiarity.
Where truth is known and not practiced, growth halts
Maturity accelerates where obedience becomes consistent. 
Growth is Empowered by the Spirit:
Galatians 5:16–25 - “But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to keep you from doing the things you want to do.  But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality,  idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.  But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,  gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit.”
Spiritual growth is not self-improvement. It is Spirit-produced fruit.
The Spirit:
Reshapes desire
Produces Christlike character
Leads away from Flesh-driven living
Growth is not behavior management; it is transformation
Effort without dependence leads to frustration
Maturity is not forced: it is cultivated through walking through the Spirit
Growth Requires Intentional Commitment:
1 Timothy 4:7-8 - “Have nothing to do with irreverent, silly myths. Rather train yourself for godliness; for while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come.”
Spiritual growth involves training
Growth requires:
Time
Focus
Repeated practice
Maturity does not happen by accident
Where there is no intentional pursuit of godliness, growth will plateau

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Whiskey Review: Limestone Farms Heritage Family Collection Select Batch Straight Bourbon Whiskey
Topic of Discussion: How we recognize a true disciple
 
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Show Notes:
A Disciple Abides in Jesus’ Word:
John 8:31-32 - So Jesus said to the Jews who had believed him, “If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
Jesus distinguishes between those who “believed” and those who are “truly my disciples.” Abiding is the difference.
Abiding means:
Remaining
Continuing
Staying under the authority of Christ’s teaching
Discipleship is not validated by enthusiasm but by endurance. 
Modern christianity often equates belief with discipleship.
Jesus equates perseverance with discipleship.
A Disciple Loves Other Believers:
John 13:34-35 - A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”
Love is the visible badge of discipleship
Not doctrinal precision
Not spiritual gifting
Not ministry productivity
Not generic kindness —Christ-shaped, selfless love. 
Christianity is communal by design. 
Discipleship cannot mature in isolation
Where love is thin, discipleship is shallow.
A disciple cannot be growing in Christ while harboring contempt toward Christ’s people. 
A Disciple Bears Spiritual Fruit:
John 15:8 - “This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.”
Fruit reveal discipleship
Character transformation
Obedient living
Reproducing faith in others
Discipleship is not static
The issue is not perfection, but direction
Is there increasing resemblance to Christ over time?
A Disciple Places Christ Above All:
Luke 14:23-33 - Large crowds were traveling with Jesus, and turning to them he said: “If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even their own life—such a person cannot be my disciple. And whoever does not carry their cross and follow me cannot be my disciple. “Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it? For if you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule you, saying, ‘This person began to build and wasn’t able to finish.’” Or suppose a king is about to go to war against another king. Won’t he first sit down and consider whether he is able with ten thousand men to oppose the one coming against him with twenty thousand? If he is not able, he will send a delegation while the other is still a long way off and will ask for terms of peace. In the same way, those of you who do not give up everything you have cannot be my disciples.”
Jesus confronts divided allegiance
To follow Christ is to reorder every competing loyalty
Family, comfort, ambition, self-rule….none outrank Him. 
This is not an emotional rejection of others
Its supreme allegiance to Christ
Half-hearted discipleship is self-deception
Is He ultimate or supplemental?
What we protect most reveals what we worship most
 
 

1792 people Bottled In one discipleship Bond, right.

Review: 1792 Bottle in Bond, Store Pick
Topic: Why Discipleship Matters
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Show Notes:
The Discipleship Problem:
Widespread Christian activity without deep formation
Churches full, disciples few
Knowledge of Jesus without apprenticeship to Jesus
Spiritual stagnation after conversion
Jesus’ Clear Command:
Matthew 28:18-20: “ And Jesus came and said to them, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in[a] the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”
Very clear command: Make disciples
Teaching obedience, not just information
Presence of Christ promised to disciple-makers
It’s not about gathering crowds but forming followers
Jesus’ Method: Investing in a Few:
Mark 3:13-15: “And he went up on the mountain and called to him those whom he desired, and they came to him. And he appointed twelve (whom he also named apostles) so that they might be with him and he might send them out to preach and have authority to cast out demons.”
Jesus intentionally chose a small group
Be with Him. 
Be formed by Him. 
Be sent by Him.
Transformation happens through proximity, time, and relationship.
Why Discipleship is Often Neglected:
Discipleship is slow and relational and sometimes relationships don’t work out.
Requires vulnerability and accountability. 
Difficult to measure and scale. 
Programs are easier to manage than people. 
Paul’s Model:
2 Timothy 2:2: “and what you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses entrust to faithful men,[a] who will be able to teach others also.”
Discipleship is meant to reproduce. 
Faithfulness valued over platform or popularity. 

Short Barrel Discipleship, Catechism is the Bees Knees.

Whiskey Review: Short Barrel Bees Knees Single Barrel Store Pick
 
Topic: 2026 the year of Catechism
 
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Show Notes:
Key Scripture References: Deuteronomy 6:4-9, Ephesians 6:4, Matthew 28:19-20, Psalm 78:4-7.
Definition of Catechism
Catechism refers to a structured summary or manual of religious doctrine, typically presented in a question-and-answer format
 
History of Catechism
Early origins
The practice of catechesis, or systematic instruction in Christian faith, traces its roots to the New Testament era, where the Greek term katēchein (meaning "to instruct orally") was used for forming disciples and preparing converts for baptism.
The earliest known written catechism is the Didache, a brief anonymous treatise composed between 60 and 85 AD
During the patristic period (2nd to 5th centuries), key figures contributed foundational works: Cyril of Jerusalem's Catechetical Lectures (4th century) for baptismal preparation, Basil of Caesarea's The Morals, and Augustine of Hippo's Enchiridion on Faith, Hope, and Love (early 5th century
These emphasized core elements like the Apostles' Creed, the Lord's Prayer, and the Ten Commandments, focusing on faith, hope, and charity
Catechesis during this time was rigorous, often lasting months or years, to ensure converts were assimilated into Christian life and doctrine.
Reformation Era
The Protestant Reformation in the 16th century marked a significant revival of catechisms, driven by the need to combat ignorance of basic doctrines among clergy and laity.
Martin Luther published his Small Catechism in May 1529 for households and children in 1528
John Calvin followed with a catechism in 1537
Catholics produced the Roman Catechism (also known as the Catechism of the Council of Trent) in 1566
Modern Era
Today, catechisms persist across denominations—Lutheran, Presbyterian, Baptist, Anglican, and Orthodox—serving as tools for discipleship, though with less emphasis on memorization and more on relational teaching.
 
So, it's for Children?
No it is part of discipleship
grounding individuals in truth
fostering spiritual maturity
guarding against heresies.
deeper Bible engagement
prayerful reflection
accountability through catechism studies.
clear Q&As make teaching relational and memorable
integrating head knowledge with heart transformation.
combats modern challenges like relativism
building resilient faith in disciples of all ages.
But yes, you should catechize your children
Biblical Calling
fathers as spiritual heads (Ephesians 6:4)
commanded to instruct children in the Lord's ways
unique influence of paternal leadership in modeling faith, providing security, and passing on a legacy (Proverbs 22:6)

Not quite Infinity and Beyond, but here is to the end of 2025

Thanks for joining us for another year. We close out the year by breaking open our infinity bottle and looking at what has happened in 2025 and what God is teaching us through it. 
We hope you join us again in 2026.

Josh, Love the Prosecco.

Topic: Advent Love
Review: Josh Cellars Prosecco.
Show Notes:
Scripture: 1 John 4:9-19, Mark 10:45, Ephesians 5:25, Ephesians 6:4, 1 Corinthians 16:4
God’s Love Moves First
Love that initiates
Love that sacrifices
Love that stays when its easier to withdraw
Where is God calling me to initiate love rather than wait for it to be earned?
Christ Redefines Strength
Jesus redefines what it means to be strong
Strength is not control. Strength is self-giving. 
How do I use the strength God has given me—to serve, or to be served?
Love in the Home
The home is where love becomes visible.
Men are called to lead not through fear or distance, but through presence, patience, and prayer.
Your family learns about God’s love by watching how you speak, forgive, listen, and repent.
What does my family experience when they experience me?
Love as Our Witness
Love is the clearest testimony of the gospel.
Before the world believes what we say, it watches how we love.
Men lead the way when they choose mercy over pride, service over comfort, and faithfulness over convenience.
Who needs to see Christ’s love through me this Advent season?

Josh, what a Joy it is to taste something more Cabernet

Topic: Advent Joy
Review: Josh Cellars Cabernet Sauvignon
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 Show Notes:
Joy as a Man’s Strength
Scripture: Luke 2:10-11, Nehemiah 8:10, Philippians 4:4
Joy is a force – “the joy of the Lord is your strength”
Advent joy is rooted in promise, not circumstance
A man’s joy becomes his family’s shelter
Jesus’ Joy in Hard Places
Scripture: Hebrews 12:2
“For the joy set before him…” — His joy enables endurance
Joy anchors preservation
Advent declares joy that darkness cannot steal
Joy comes from a heart aligned with God.
It’s the natural overflow of a Spirit-filled life.
 
 

Josh, this Rose is bringing me no Peace, go back to the Cellar.

Review: Josh Cellars Rose
Topic: Advent week of Peace
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Show Notes:
Peace as a Man’s Courage:
Scripture: Isaiah 26:3; John 14:27; Luke 2:14
Peace is not passive; it’s active against fear and disorder
Men are called to be peacemakers- not peacekeepers?
How Jesus Models Courageous Peace:
He confronts storms and stills them (Mark 4:35-41)
He confronts demons and frees the oppressed (Mark 5:1-20)
He confronts sin and brings forgiveness (Matthew 4:17)
Peace begins with an internal mastery through the Spirit
Practicing Advent Peace:
Protecting our homes from distraction and violence (both spiritual and emotional)
Confession being a weekly rhythm
Practicing gentle strength
Invitation instead of escalation